Is there an elephant in the room?

Monday morning seems like a good time to start anew, so let’s try a series of awkward questions:

  • Is there a troubled reporting relationship on your team?
  • Do you need to apologize to someone?
  • Does someone need to apologize to you?
  • Is it time to come clean about something?
  • Is there a key piece of feedback you could give?
  • Is a Big Nasty Issue — a failed project, a cultural issue, a mysterious firing — hanging over everyone’s heads?
  • Is there a pointless regular meeting that everyone would like to eliminate?
  • Is there an employee who needs to be fired?
  • Is there a client who needs to be fired?
  • Is there a toxic manager or executive who’s causing havoc?
  • Is Jack a bully? A sexual harrasser?
  • Does Jill display the hallmarks of a problem drinker?
  • Is the tool broken?
  • Is the process broken?
  • Is a fundamental assumption mistaken?
  • Is someone in over their head? (Is it you?)
  • . . .

Hey, it’s none of my business, so you don’t have to tell me. But if there’s an elephant in the room, you know it — and you’ll be relieved when it’s gone.

Maybe today is the perfect day to clear the air about whatever-it-is.

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(Picture by digitalART2.)

Category: The working life

1 Comment so far

Miz Liz August 25th, 2008 5:57 am

Tim - good stuff here. I’m tempted to send it to one of my clients who has been losing staff left and right…

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