Give yourself the gift of calm.

How big a deal is it, really?

This somber anniversary date ought to be a good time for some reflection on what’s really important to us — and that applies just as much to what’s important in the workplace as in all the other areas of our lives.

If the job-related thing really is a super-big deal — sure, drop everything else, stay late if necessary, and handle it NOW. (But see if you can do it with a sense of aplomb.)

If it’s the usual “fire drill” type of stuff? Naah. Take deep breaths and work efficiently through it, but decline the opportunity to wig out.

Endless evidence — see the links at the bottom of this post — show that stress is bad for us. We know for a certainty that on average people make better decisions when they’re calm. I know beyond any doubt that I think better when I’m calm.

Besides, many of our crazy-making habits are of our own devising. And even the crazy-making traits of our managers, departments, and companies can be parried with better habits from us.

Give yourself the gift of these habits. For starters, when you’re feeling stressed, get some exercise, even if it just means walking a lap around the block, or up and down the stairs in your building.

When you get back to your desk, eliminate one thing — even a tiny thing — that’s causing you stress. (I suggest the Big, Bad E-mail lingering in your inbox.) Then eliminate another.

And keep in mind: if it really came down to it — if the stakes were made obvious — few of us would place our jobs above our health. But that’s exactly what we do when we stress out about work.

The short version of all this? Keep Calm and Carry On.

~

Related posts:

~

(Sea photo by paveitapics; “Keep Calm” poster photo by adactio.)


Category: The working life

If you liked this post, please consider subscribing to the RSS feed so you can receive future articles delivered to your feed reader.

2 Comments so far

Miz Liz September 11th, 2008 5:27 am

Thanks Tim. Great reminder. The stress level of this week and last has truly tested those theories.

Is it really worth it? Honestly, no. Actually, if I reflect back on this day 7 years ago, a lot of memories come flooding back. You see, I lived 20 blocks from the Towers, my neighborhood was in lockdown, I know people who disappeared that day, people who were burned, people who lost their loves. And what was most important to us New Yorkers? Community.

I believe that we should live to improve the quality of our lives and of those around us. We should prioritize the things and people you cherish. Life is fleeting. Easy to forget in the midst of the madness. But, oh so important.

Mike Chapman September 11th, 2008 5:28 am

Thank you for this post, Tim. It reminded me to slow down today, just a little, and think about some of the really important things.

Leave A Comment